Pronouns

Unsure what pronouns to use when addressing me? Don't worry, it's not that complicated. If a language has gender-neutral pronouns (that is not commonly seen as a prejorative, such as neuter in most cases), I'm fine with it. Otherwise, I generally prefer gramatically female pronouns.

English

Singular "they", so they/them/their/theirs/themself. The plural reflexive "themselves" is also okay.

German

The German language has no widely-used gender neutral pronouns, so I'm okay with "sie/ihr" pronouns.

There are however movements to establish gender neutral pronouns, the (seemingly?) most widely covered one being the sier and xier pronouns by Illi Anna Heger. Out of those, I'm cool with "xier".

I also randomly find "xie" to be a nice pronoun in German. It's basically "sie" but starting with an "x". It's more or less homebrew though.

For completeness' sake, and to make fun of how complicated pronouns in German are, here are some tables relating all of the German neopronouns I'm aware of and accept and sie/ihr:

Personal pronouns

"Family" Nominative Genitive Dative Accusative
xie xie xihrer xihr xie
xier xier xieser xiem xien
sie sie ihrer ihr sie

Relative pronouns

"Family" Nominative Genitive Dative Accusative
xie die deren/derer der die
xier dier dies diem dien
sie die deren/derer der die

Possesive pronouns

Possesive pronouns relate two nouns. They can occur together with a noun or as a stand-in for a noun which are two distict variants. Possesive pronouns also vary based on the grammatical gender of the noun they refer to and the grammatical gender of the noun they relate to (and of course the grammatical case). This would be a four-dimensional cube, so I've ommitted spelling those out here. In general: